The many considerations when purchasing an engagement ring
- Written by Daily Bulletin
It can be some of the happiest days in the life of any male when they realise that the woman that they originally started dating is the one for them. Realising that they have found a partner that they want to spend the rest of their lives with, is an amazing emotion.
Of course, it means that it is time to do something about it. Only a fool would let anyone so special drift away. Plenty of sleepless nights, planning, and then dreaming of the future, will take place before a decision is made to propose to her. Before that is done, some expert advice and help from a partner’s friends and family should be obtained prior to checking out a range of engagement rings.
- It is one of life’s biggest decisions to get engaged which will lead to marriage in most cases. Giving a beloved a ring is a commitment and a sign of dedication. It’s an incredibly special moment, which will be remembered forever. Therefore, careful consideration needs to be taken before selecting the right ring. The beauty being, that choosing a ring offers scope for personal preference, which is where sound advice from a jeweller of note is a sensible way to go.
- It is important to remember that it will be the fiancée wearing the ring, and not her husband-to-be. While he might think that he has found something beautiful, it might not match the taste and preferred style of his intended. Therefore, a little research and gentle dropping subtle questions into conversations might offer some clues. Those who are extremely excited and are struggling with sleep might find reasons to turn to drinking chamomile tea.
- Help might be required in finding out the size of the ring. Family or friends of a loved one can often help with that, if they can be trusted not to tell her of your plans. Another consideration is the lifestyle that a partner leads. Does she work or use her hands, and would a delicate design be awkward for her to wear?
- Something else that many overlook because they are trying desperately to make their beloved as happy as possible is how much they can spend on the ring, ending up paying too much. While a couple of months salary is not an unusual price to pay for an engagement ring, the love that comes with it is more important than its monetary value. Maybe the proposal might take place in a stunning park.
- The stone and colour and make up of the metal of the ring are other things to consider, especially if it might need to match with a wedding ring or other jewellery items. Any allergy or skin condition should also be accounted for. Again, the advice of an expert who has vast experience in such matters is a sensible course of action.
The offering of an engagement ring is a huge moment in anyone’s life, so careful planning and advice is required before making a purchase.